A wedding is between two people. Even if you organise it by yourself, as one of the future spouses, it is a must that you remember to include aspects that will represent both of you; as the event itself is the one which will bring both of you together, why not make that event to signify that exact union?
There will be so man things to be managed at the same time. Even though you go to a wedding and it seems easy enough to be done by you, once you start the task you will understand it is not a walk in the park. However, think of all the things you had to do in the college to get through or how much you dedicate yourself to work. Planning your own wedding is not that difficult, in that case. Just try to see what fits and what works for both of you and stick to it! Do not let others, especially, people who just come to criticize things shake you in that strong will you have. If you have decided to have a pre-party party first and use it like an engagement, you can buy both engagement party invites and wedding invites from the same place to reduce costs.
The important thing is to have fun! it is your wedding and it may be the only wedding you are ever going to have! Do not sweat the tiny details and try to okay it by the ear if something comes up at the last moment. Focus on what is really vital and important for that day, rather than worrying about the colour of the place cards being dark blue instead of light blue. If your relatives are somewhat like mine, they will find some glitch no matter how carefully you plan it all, so chill.
Use the computer
Unlike earlier times now you can use the internet to plan any event and it has become quite easy due to that. Use apps like spreadsheets to compose and manage a budget, a tasks app to remind you to do everything including the very small tasks and of course, make use of the resources available in world wide web. There are so many websites and videos etc. which will give you ideas; also so many online sites through which you can view and order so many products including wedding cards including rose gold invitations if it fits your theme, décor, place cards, wine glass place cards, cake boxes, door gifts and so on. Make use of the discounts they give and offers they have; you can save a lot of money with that. Even with the use and help of these, you are bound to have some confusion and chaos; do not worry about it, it is bound to happen anyway. The end result and the most important take out from this is the life that you are going to spend with your loved one. So focus on that more!